Love and Logic??

So that is the new parenting method J and I are going to try with V. We are having a difficult time. It's funny that she is almost always "the perfect child" when we are around other people but when it's just us- boy does she start. So last night my straw broke and I drove to a few of my best friends house to pick up the books and CD's so I can start learning how to be a better parent. Right now I am just an injustice to V. Feeling like I am a sucky mom today. Can you tell???