but that's not going to happen today. We'll save that for another day.
This is the note I woke up to today.
"Der Mom and dad I am
goen to
ignor you
ul dae lugn disuptd,
veda I hat you MOM"
Let me translate here... Dear Mom and Dad, I am going to ignore you all day long. Disappointed, Veda. I hate you MOM! Don't you like how the MOM at the end was in all caps. Not only that it covers 3/4 of the page.
I feel loved.
You see yesterday was a hard day. Starting out with me saying No to cheese sticks for lunch (our public schools serving cheese sticks for a main entree- no wonder we are all fat!). Then I "
made" her wear her snow pants. And I was going to make everyone at the bus stop make fun of her. Do you remember the weather yesterday? It was so cold. Isn't it my job to make sure she is warm and safe? I tried to give her the talk.. you know "It doesn't matter what other people think about you as long as you are happy with yourself and making good responsible choices." That went over with a bunch of tears.
After school she got into the house and was still mad at me about the cheese sticks. Then I asked to her play her piano before lessons to get one more practice in. Again, somehow I became the devil. You see, she was invited to a birthday party (today) and I had told her if she did not stop with the behavior she would not be able to go. Poor choices equal having to deal with consequences. Yesterday she forgot that I stick to my word. So last night after she had fun with Jeff when he got home she wanted a "sweet" and I said "Do you think that with your behavior today you deserve one? Honestly?" She said "No, but I want one." So needless to say she threw a HUGE TANTRUM and went to bed crying and screaming.
Today she tried to clean the windows and all of our pictures to earn back her
privilege to go to A's birthday party. Not going to happen. I am sticking to this.
What will I do when she is a teenager? I am sending her to my parents house. They did a good job with not killing me. Well, there was that one time my mom attempted to run me over with the car....
UGH! Needless to say no birthday party today.